One of the first rules of agile leadership is focus. There are things you can do something about, and there are things you cannot, and you need to distinguish between the two and treat them differently.
Of all the things that may be of concern to you, you need to distinguish between those things that are beyond your ability to influence, and those things that are within your influence. Don’t ignore those things that are beyond your influence; you want to pay attention to the whole board. But also, don’t focus on those things that are beyond your influence — they’re distractions. Rather, focus on those things that are within your ability to influence.
Think of two circles like those shown in Figure 1. The larger, outer circle represents the superset of things that are of concern to you. The smaller, inner circle represents the subset of things that are of concern to you AND over which you have some measure of influence.
Think of your circle of influence like a muscle.
If you neglect it and spend your energy on things that are of concern to you, but beyond your influence, then, as shown in Figure 2, your circle of influence will atrophy and shrink, just like a neglected muscle.
On the other hand, if you focus your energy on those things that are within your influence, then, as shown in Figure 3, just like a muscle that is exercised, your circle of influence will grow. More things will open to your influence; people will seek out your opinion and assistance regarding matters that would otherwise be outside of your influence.
But you have to be patient and you have to be persistent, because just like exercising your muscles, it takes repetition over time before you will start to see results. How long it takes will be a function of the shape that muscle is in to begin with, and how faithful you are to exercising it.
By the way, this concept applies not only to one’s work life, but to one’s personal life, as well.
Admittedly this is a pretty simple concept; however, it is not an easy one. It’s not an intellectual problem; most people understand it. However, it is a problem of mental discipline, and it is that mental discipline that is one of the things that separates agile leaders from brittle ones.
One such mental discipline is “agile-driven priority and time management,” which you can learn more about here.
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